The plight of Indian women....

Women are said to be highly empowered these days. Is it in real sense?!! I doubt…!!. The male chauvinistic society had been stamping over the self-esteem of women for ages. They were made to be ignorant of their rights and exploited right from historical periods. Now people say time has changed and women are revolutionary nowadays, but the struggle is still on. Women are given the great title “epitome of tolerance” which is praise in disguise and that demands her to receive the brutal actions of men always with a smile. Women keeps transforming herself to fit into the frame of the roles like daughter, wife, daughter-in-law, mother and so on to great extents and at one point of time she hardly remembers who she was… what was her ambition, her thoughts, principles, likings, joy, individuality and the list of what she lost in life is endless. So the plight of Indian women remains still the same but with a modern envelop.

Friendship Vs Marital Knot....

Every time I think of my friends my brain and heart take a giant leap of joy and when I think of the relations around my marital knot the feel is like I’m back to pavilion. I wonder why thinking of good old days spent with friends always remains a sweet feeling. Now after getting into the marital knot I realize its full of expectations and demand my brain to keep handling emotional pressures. In the marital relation I can’t be myself, I have to transform myself to fit into the frame of marriage. When this prolongs my heart and brain really get tired and have no more power to enjoy the companionship. One gets so much entangled with emotional needs of the relation that the essence of life is completely lost. But it’s not the case with friendship that has a magical spell that always refreshes your heart and brain. One really forgets all the pains of the world when thinking of those beautiful short and sweet moments of joyful casual chat with friends under the tree in the college campus or those playful days spent with your school buddies. So the triumph is always for friendship and friends in everyone’s life.

DONT'S for a women in married life...

There are several “DONT’S” for a woman in married life. These are must for a woman at least to sustain the marital knot. Never praise your dad, mom and all your maternal and paternal ones. Never argue for what u feel is wrong, keep silence that should only be your virtue. Never ask questions to your husband especially issues related to your in-laws (Beware: The most disastrous area to touch). Never speak of your self-respect, as it’s a non-sense to him. Never ever boast about your professional achievements to him, as it’s your waste of energy. Never be sad even if he ill-treats/hits/uses degrading words for you and your parents /insults you in front of his parents and so on that includes all categories of humiliation, remember you are greatly known as “The personification of tolerance”. Above all Never ever expect your married life to be a bed of roses, the marital volcano keeps erupting….U Never Know why/when (...Aa..Aaa that’s the top secret…!!!).